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I was working at the Family Fitness Centre in Pico Blv back in the late 80's whem Donnie was hired to join our team, From the beginning he was taken on board by the staff and the members. WSe just to go out sometimes to celebrate and end up at Canters in Fairfax. Donnie had an amazing energy and could go on forever. I moved to other gyms and eventually lost contact. I live in Australia now and I was

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Posted by: Tony Contreras - Australia - Friend   Apr 03, 2013

I met Donnie when I walked into 24 Hour Fitness on Pico Blvd. in Century City in 1999. I was looking for a job and I went to speak to the manager. Well, out comes Donnie and he greeted me with an easy smile and a few kind words. He said he'd give my resume a look and pass it on. I thought he was just being polite. I was surprised when I got a call a few days later

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Posted by: Rick Gonzalez - Los Angeles, CA - Former coworker   Dec 14, 2012

I worked with Donnie, Dennis, Johnny, Mark, little john, Brett Fox and all the gang. I'm so sorry to hear about Donnie. He was a great friend of mine and I'll always remember him fondly.


Posted by: Mike Blakey - Lake Dolores, Newberry Springs, CA - Friend   Aug 21, 2011

Well Donnie I just heard the sad news but knowing you I am betting you are on a wild ride through the heavens. You worked LA when I was working Orange County with 24 Hour Fitness. I always enjoyed chatting with you. No I never made it to that club I was asked to go to. Not sure LA could have handled us both back then. Either way My condolences kid you are well remembered .

Respectfully eternally

Dave Adams


Posted by: Dave Adams - Portland formerly the OC, OR - friend   Oct 26, 2010

Donnie...Taught me so much to living life. He is one of those people to me that you reflect on alot. I think of Donnie alot and always have since he touched my life the day I went to work for him at 24 Hour fitness/Beverly Hills. To me Donnie was a true friend, leader, sponser, and mentor. He gave selflessly of himself to me to try and get me better with my personal struggles/demons, went way outside of the box.

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Posted by: Whitney Blum - Clarence, NY - Friend   Aug 09, 2010

Dear Bender Family,
We were so sorry to hear about Donnie. He was a great kid. We have so many wonderful memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.


Posted by: The Estes Family - apple valley, CA - friend   May 26, 2010

My family and I are praying for you and your family to somehow find peace in all this. We're not supposed to bury our kids, and we don't suppose to know how it would affect us. We can only offer our love and support when it happens to someone we really care about. We are here for you, whatever you need.


Posted by: Steve Lohmeyer Family - Apple Valley, CA   Feb 06, 2010

Marlene,Dennis,Kelly,Denny,Dionne, So sorry for your loss.Donnie had the kind of spirit and energy that I will never forget. I have not seen Donnie in over 20 years. My memories of him will always be 360's on the stand up slide or his hours spent trying to hit that triple on the swings.With a crowd on shore cheering him on, of course. That guy could always make me laugh! Thinking of you all, The Jordans, Rick and Donique, Jimmy, Meagan, Justin,Lindsey Cody


Posted by: Rick Jordan - Apple Valley, CA   Feb 06, 2010

Dennis, We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Donnie. Our prayers are with you. Snake Sibaila's parents


Posted by: Joe and Ginger Felicione - Hesperia, CA   Feb 05, 2010

Dear Bender family, I am sincerely sadden to hear of the loss of Donnie.
I grew up with Donnie and can still picture him as a ten year old boy on
the play ground. Although I had not seen him in about 15 years I will
all ways remember and miss him. you are in my prays. RIP Donnie.
GOD Bless, Leo


Posted by: Leo Miller - CA - friend   Feb 03, 2010