Debra "Deb" Hagen
  • In lieu of flowers, please honor Debra's memory with a contribution to the Pilgrim Congregational Church, 15 Common Street, Southborough 01772 or The Beauty Foundation for Cancer Care, 68 White Street, St. 113, Red Bank, NJ 07701.

Pause Days Gone By by Bruce H. Zimmerman (ASCAP)
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Thank you for your support during this difficult time. Please enhance this tribute to Deb by adding your memories and photos.

I cannot believe its been five years, honey! My love for you continues to grow and the struggle to adjust to this "new" life - the one without you in it - remains near impossible. Life just isn't as gratifying and I miss you beyond what any words can say. . .
Your loving husband - always . . .

Posted by: Judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA - Spouse   Dec 13, 2017

My love for you only continues to grow and I miss you terribly each and every day. I love you forever. Your husband

Posted by: judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA - Spouse   Dec 14, 2016

You are with me constantly and always.

I love and miss you as much as I ever have.

Your loving husband, forever.

Posted by: judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA - Husband   Dec 13, 2015

I miss you more with each passing moment and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm going to live the rest of my life without you. You are with me every minute of every day. You never leave my thoughts.

We're together forever, my beautiful wife,

Your loving husband

Posted by: Judd Aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA - Husband   Dec 10, 2013

Nancy, sorry for your family's loss. Debbie was a sweet heart. Always remember her laugh. Met you and your family one weekend when we were in college. It was a fun weekend.Believe your mom just married Phil. Hope the memory and name is correct. Not good with words. Remember you were so young(little kid). Just want to say i remember you guys,and you guys were funny and fun. You probably don't remember me because it was so long ago!!!

Bobby caloggero

Posted by: Bobby Caloggero - lexington, MA - college   Oct 04, 2013

I first met Deb when she moved into a house on our street in Hopkinton about nine years ago. Matt was in the fourth grade with my daughter, Megan. I used to enjoy our conversations while waiting at the bus stop. We used to laugh at how the two kids would get off the bus and not say a word to each other and march their way back to their respective houses. Deb and her new family, for she had

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Posted by: Ann Marie Juffras - Hopkinton, MA - friend   Dec 21, 2012

Dear Judd & Family,

I'm so very sad to hear and my thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. There are no words, but know that I will be thinking of you and your family - Love, Jean Dellarobba

Posted by: Jean A. Dellarobba - Irvine, CA - former colleague   Dec 20, 2012

Dear Judd, Matt and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We were deeply sadden to hear of Deb's passing. I worked with her years ago and gave birth to our first son one day before Matt was born. I will always treasure our friendship. She was a great mentor with a quick smile and fabulous sense of humor. Although we lost touch, I thought of her often. We shared many laughs along the way and a few tears. Thinking of you all during this time. Our prayers are with you.


Cheryl and Jon Tuppa

Posted by: Cheryl Tuppa - Groton, MA - Friend   Dec 20, 2012

Dear Judd, Matt, and family,

It is with great sorrow that I offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful wife and mother, Deb. Strangely, it was this morning that I left her a voice mail, wishing her well and asking if there was anything I could do for her. My husband called a short time later to tell me that Deb had passed last Friday. I was absolutely stunned, and it was too late to even attend her

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Posted by: Andrea Persels - Milford, MA - Friend   Dec 19, 2012

Judd, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time. My deepest sympathy, Sandy

Posted by: Sandra Bisson - Colleague from Research Results   Dec 19, 2012