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John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Ask John & Russell – Sometimes grief feels like a long-term, low-grade infection, and time doesn't make it go away. (Published 10/28/2014)


My son died soon after he turned 30, nearly five years ago. Our relationship was complex and we had our issues and 'ups and downs', but we were very close. One could say we grew up together. He was my only child. I have managed well and I think I did all the right things. I'm working and am married. My problem is that I can't seem to get over this constant sadness, anger, and depression. I don't blame it all on my son's death, but I still feel like that is the underlying issue that feeds this malaise. I sometimes feel stuck. Do you have any thoughts or advice for me?

Russell Friedman Replies:

Dear Anon,

Thanks for your note and question.

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