John James, founder of The Grief Recovery Institute

John W. James

Founder of The Grief Recovery Institute®
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve

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Russell Friedman, Executive Director of The Grief Recovery Institute

Russell Friedman

Executive Director
Co-Author of The Grief Recovery
Handbook & When Children Grieve


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The impact of the death of a former spouse - often confusing and overwhelming! (Published 9-27-11)

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I have just discovered my ex husband has died. Although he was my ex I still feel as if a huge part of my life has died with him. No one bothered to tell me, or his child that he was even ill. I can't stop thinking about him and wishing I could have at least spoken a few last words to him. I hide my grief from my husband. He has no idea how I feel and would not understand as he is very jealous man. I am confused and don't know how to cope with this. When I'm on my own I watch his tribute video and cry with regret. This can't be healthy but I feel so hopeless I don't know what else to do.


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If you or someone important to you wants help with grief: Look for a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist℠ in your community. The Grief Recovery Institute ® trains and mentors Certified Grief Recovery Specialists℠ throughout the United States & Canada.

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Workshops & Training Schedule

The Grief Recovery Institute ® offers Certification Training programs for those who wish to help grievers.

  • December 2013
    Houston, TX - December 6 - 9, 2013
    Louisville, KY - December 6 - 9, 2013
    Tampa, FL - December 6 - 9, 2013
    Toronto, ON - December 6 - 9, 2013
    January 2014
    Phoenix, AZ - January 17 - 20, 2014
    Los Angeles, CA - January 24 - 27, 2014
    Vancouver, BC - January 24 - 27, 2014
    Columbus, OH - January 24 - 27, 2014

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