Debra "Deb" Hagen
  • In lieu of flowers, please honor Debra's memory with a contribution to the Pilgrim Congregational Church, 15 Common Street, Southborough 01772 or The Beauty Foundation for Cancer Care, 68 White Street, St. 113, Red Bank, NJ 07701.

Pause Days Gone By by Bruce H. Zimmerman (ASCAP)
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“I cannot believe its been five years, honey! My love for you continues to grow and the struggle to adjust to this "new" life - the one without you...Read More »
1 of 70 | Posted by: Judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA

“My love for you only continues to grow and I miss you terribly each and every day. I love you forever. Your husband ”
2 of 70 | Posted by: judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA

“You are with me constantly and always. I love and miss you as much as I ever have. Your loving husband, forever. ”
3 of 70 | Posted by: judd aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA

“I miss you more with each passing moment and I'm still trying to figure out how I'm going to live the rest of my life without you. You are with me...Read More »
4 of 70 | Posted by: Judd Aschenbrand - West Yarmouth, MA

“Nancy, sorry for your family's loss. Debbie was a sweet heart. Always remember her laugh. Met you and your family one weekend when we were in college...Read More »
5 of 70 | Posted by: Bobby Caloggero - lexington, MA

“I first met Deb when she moved into a house on our street in Hopkinton about nine years ago. Matt was in the fourth grade with my daughter, Megan....Read More »
6 of 70 | Posted by: Ann Marie Juffras - Hopkinton, MA

“Dear Judd & Family,I'm so very sad to hear and my thoughts and prayers are with you through this difficult time. There are no words, but know that I...Read More »
7 of 70 | Posted by: Jean A. Dellarobba - Irvine, CA

“Dear Judd, Matt and Family, We are so sorry for your loss. We were deeply sadden to hear of Deb's passing. I worked with her years ago and gave...Read More »
8 of 70 | Posted by: Cheryl Tuppa - Groton, MA

“Dear Judd, Matt, and family, It is with great sorrow that I offer my deepest condolences on the loss of your beautiful wife and mother, Deb. ...Read More »
9 of 70 | Posted by: Andrea Persels - Milford, MA

“Judd, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time. My deepest sympathy, Sandy ”
10 of 70 | Posted by: Sandra Bisson

“Dear Judd and Family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. There are no words to express my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I will hold...Read More »
11 of 70 | Posted by: Maria Beasley - Fitchburg, MA

“My deepest Sympathy to all~ As a collegue in the real estate business I am blessed to have known such a Beautiful person~ ”
12 of 70 | Posted by: Bernie Calvario - Hopkinton, MA

“You have been a treasured gift in my life, and I am thankful to God for you. I will miss you. ”
13 of 70 | Posted by: janine panechelli - medway, MA

“Nancy: I'm so sorry to hear about your sister. My heart goes out to you and your sister's family. I hope you will always have the sweetness of the...Read More »
14 of 70 | Posted by: Ann Marcus - Portland, OR

“I am so sorry for the loss of your wife, mother and friend. Deb and I spent many great times together in high school. She had a quick wit and great...Read More »
15 of 70 | Posted by: Sharon Bry - Woodstock, VT

“Judd, Nancy and family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved wife, mother, sister and friend. As a former co-worker of Judd's I only...Read More »
16 of 70 | Posted by: Jen McKean - Auburn, MA

“This is very sad and shocking news! Deb will always be remembered by all of us with a hearty chuckle and a ready smile. She was a vivacious and...Read More »
17 of 70 | Posted by: Liz Seacord - Norton, MA

“Judd, Matthew and family,My deepest condolences for your loss. Deb was a beautiful person and an inspiration to all who knew her! ”
18 of 70 | Posted by: Barbara J Heisler - Shrewsbury, MA

“My heartfelt condolences to all Deb's family and friends. I wish I could be there in person as you celebrate her life. She was one of a kind. We lost...Read More »
19 of 70 | Posted by: John R. Broderick - Norfolk, VA

“Dear Judd, Matt, Jan, Jim, Nancy, and family: My deepest condolences to you all. Deb was one terrific lady, both personally and professionally. ...Read More »
20 of 70 | Posted by: Keith Bynum - West Roxbury, MA

“Dear Janet, My deepest condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Maureen ”
21 of 70 | Posted by: Maureen Lyons - Medfield, MA

“To everyone who loved Deb: I knew Deb when she and my sister, Sue, became best friends at Medway High School. It was an unlikely friendship: Deb was...Read More »
22 of 70 | Posted by: Carol Bresnahan - Winter Park, FL

1976 Medway High School Class officers “I am so deeply sorry to hear about Debbie's death. Debbie and I were class officers together at Medway High School. I have many fond memories of our...Read More »
23 of 70 | Posted by: Joyce Higgins Dacier

“To Deb's family, I am very sorry for your loss. Although we lost touch over the years, it is especially sad to hear that a childhood classmate has...Read More »
24 of 70 | Posted by: Richard Albano - Millis, MA

“Aunt Debbie, for you will always be Aunt Debbie to will be missed. You are that one that made every other loss in our family bearable with...Read More »
25 of 70 | Posted by: Elise Barrieau - Vernon, CT

“Deb and I shared an office for a few years. It was always so much fun to be there together at the same time. Just passing the day together was fun,...Read More »
26 of 70 | Posted by: Kathy Dragin - Hopkinton, MA

“Deb was such a wonderful person and will be greatly missed by so many. I remember when I first met her through my Mother to help me find and buy my...Read More »
27 of 70 | Posted by: Katie Mahoney - Bellingham, MA

“In our family grief, we have to tell you that Deb Hagen was an incredibly wonderful and courageous person. She is the shining light of our family,...Read More »
28 of 70 | Posted by: Bob Major - San Diego, CA

“With sincere sympathy on your loss of Deb, much too soon. Although I hadn't seen Deb recently I will remember her beautiful smile and friendly...Read More »
29 of 70 | Posted by: Maria Varrichione - Medway, MA

“Jim and Family, Please accept my warmest condolences for your loss with Debra's departure. Thoughts and prayers go out to all of you to give you...Read More »
30 of 70 | Posted by: Charles Feuer - Newtown, PA

“Dear Hagen/Lucier Families: Please accept my condolences. I have some great memories of Deb and the rest of the family from the '80's. Let the...Read More »
31 of 70 | Posted by: Michael Cutillo - AZ

“I'm lighting this candle in memory of one of my all time favorite agents that I ever had the pleasure to work with & for. Deb was always laughing &...Read More »
32 of 70 | Posted by: Adrienne Hollis - Hopkinton, MA

“Dear Jan & Nancy, I am heartbroken over Debra's passing. Nancy, I remember how excited you & Paul were when she was expecting Matthew. And how...Read More »
33 of 70 | Posted by: Mary O'Brien - Medway, MA

“Though I didn't know Deb extremely well, I always felt a special bond with her. We were both sick around the same time and would commiserate...Read More »
34 of 70 | Posted by: Sheryn Carew - Southborough, MA

“Matt and Judd, I struggle for the words to truly express how sorry I was to hear of Deb's passing. We go back many yearss, before you were born Matt,...Read More »
35 of 70 | Posted by: Bill Suarez - Holliston, MA

“I am so sad to hear of Deb's passing, what a special woman. May the fond memories you have of her bring you comfort in the days ahead. Thinking of...Read More »
36 of 70 | Posted by: Sue Mahoney - Medway, MA

“Judd, Matt and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Deb was a wonderful wife, mother and friend; she will be missed very much. I am praying...Read More »
37 of 70 | Posted by: Darlene Flanders - Boylston, MA

“Our hearts go out to all of Deb's family and friends. She was a wonderful woman, and an amazing realtor. We always loved working with her, and she...Read More »
38 of 70 | Posted by: Christine & Rory Warren

“Very sad to hear of Deb's passing. She was a reliable, competent, and intelligent professional who I looked forward to working with in real estate. ...Read More »
39 of 70 | Posted by: Margo Otey - Hopkinton, MA

“My deepest sympathies to the whole family at the loss of a beautiful and loving woman. I only had the pleasure of meeting Deb a few times, but my...Read More »
40 of 70 | Posted by: Julie Seitter - Littleton, MA

“Deb was a colleague of mine, a friend, and a person I consider myself fortunate to have known. She was the epitome of true professionalism. She was a...Read More »
41 of 70 | Posted by: Jeannine Pompeo Coburn - MA

“Jim, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. ”
42 of 70 | Posted by: Don Creed - Boston, MA - Friend

“I met Deb about 6 years ago while working in the mortgage industry. We had a lot in common as mother's of boys, our line of work and desire to help...Read More »
43 of 70 | Posted by: Paula Collins - Shrewsbury, MA

“I knew Debra when she attended Medway High school She was a great student, and a very vivacious and happy person yikvt ”
44 of 70 | Posted by: David driscoll - Venice, FL

“DeBs Family, Deb was first class in each and every way . She was a woman of substance and style, and most of all dignity. I was amazed when finding...Read More »
45 of 70 | Posted by: Michael L Durkin

“My deepeest condolences at this difficult time. You are on my heart as you begin this grieving and healing process. ”
46 of 70 | Posted by: Rebecca Zoz - Lincoln, NE

“Judd, Nancy and family, I am so sorry to hear of Deb's passing. My heart goes out to each of you and your families during this difficult time. I...Read More »
47 of 70 | Posted by: Janet King - Yarmouth, ME

“Judd and family, I was so very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all. Claudette ”
48 of 70 | Posted by: Claudette Sears - Sudbury, MA

“Deb endured her illness with grace, enormous strength and courage. May she rest in peace and watch over her loving family as they will need to find...Read More »
49 of 70 | Posted by: Suzanne Wenzel Grillo - Medway, MA

“I'm so sorry to learn of Deb's passing. While I never met her, I remember that Judd always spoke glowingly of her. She was too young to be taken from...Read More »
50 of 70 | Posted by: Paul Gillin - Framingham, MA

“Judd and Nancy: I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I knew Deb had to be a very special person when she captured Judd's heart. My thoughts...Read More »
51 of 70 | Posted by: Ann MacKay - Berlin, MA

“Dear Judd and family - I am so sorry to hear the news and send my deepest sympathy to you on your loss. While I did not know Deb, I know her passing...Read More »
52 of 70 | Posted by: Kathy Dinneen - Mattapoisett, MA

“Our deepest condolences to your family. May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times with your loved one and may the God of all...Read More »
53 of 70 | Posted by: Diana Mack - Decatur, GA

“My deepest sympathies go out to Judd, Matthew, Janet, Jim, Nancy, Patrick, Jocelyn, Jill, Janine and Phillip. Debra was an amazing woman, I will...Read More »
54 of 70 | Posted by: Mary Ellen Hasenfuss - Franklin, MA

“Matt, your mom was such a beautiful person in every conceivable way. Her warmth, generosity and humor radiated in every encounter. I feel...Read More »
55 of 70 | Posted by: Barb Trudel - Shrewsbury, MA

“Her strength will be an inspiration to us all. ”
56 of 70 | Posted by: Kathleen O'Hara - Sarasota, FL

“I have a deep sadness in my heart but my memories of Deb make me smile and laugh - that's what she did for so many. I had the privledge of working...Read More »
57 of 70 | Posted by: Scott Holmes - Oak Bluffs, MA

“Dear Nancy and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Having a special bond with your sister is unique and precious and something that is never...Read More »
58 of 70 | Posted by: Diana Cooper - Norfolk, MA

“Nancy and Family, So very sorry for your loss. Prayers and thoughts for all of you. ”
59 of 70 | Posted by: Donna Passerello - Hyannis, MA

“Dear Nancy, Jim and Judd, So very sorry for your loss. I did not know Deb but I have no doubt that she was an extra ordinary person and clearly she...Read More »
60 of 70 | Posted by: evilee

“Nancy, I am so very sad to hear about your sister's passing. May the many happy memories you have of your sister help you through this very...Read More »
61 of 70 | Posted by: Kim Gavrilles

“Judd and Matt, I am so very sorry for your loss. Deb was such a beautiful woman, inside and out. She was my first friend when Catherine and Matt...Read More »
62 of 70 | Posted by: Margaret Collins - Shrewsbury,, MA

“Deb your laughter will never fade from our memories...I am sure the heavens above have embraced all of your glory! We will miss you and keep you as...Read More »
63 of 70 | Posted by: Lisa Wenzel McDonald - Franklin, MA

“Judd, Matt and Family, Deb I see your ship floating away in the distance as I stand on the beach with my families Cape memories! One of the best...Read More »
64 of 70 | Posted by: LeeAnn Barrieau - Farmington, CT

“Friends are life's treasures and Deb was the best of them! There is a huge hole in my heart. May we all feel God's embrace of comfort and love. With...Read More »
65 of 70 | Posted by: Debbie Depp Wilson - Southborough, MA

“My heart felt sympathy during this difficult time. My prayers and love are with you all. Sincerely, Tricia Nutting ”
66 of 70 | Posted by: Patricia Nutting - Medway

“Deb, we love you. Give a big hug to all the Brentwood family in Heaven, from all the Lucier Family. ”
67 of 70 | Posted by: Jocelyn Lucier - Milford, MA

“Wonderful mother, wife, friend, daughter, and sister. She has left her mark on all of us, and now as we move through our life we can honor her...Read More »
68 of 70 | Posted by: Maria Olson - clemmons, NC

“Life sometimes brings you great luck, and it did me when I met Deb while we were both in software sales years ago. It's been a tremendous privilege...Read More »
69 of 70 | Posted by: John Chase - Shrewsbury, MA

“I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. ”
70 of 70 | Posted by: Jack Maher - Franklin, MA

Ms. Debra J. Hagen, of West Yarmouth, formerly of Shrewsbury and Hopkinton, died Friday, December 14, 2012 in her home with her family gathered by her side. She was 54.

Debra was born in Norwood on May 6, 1958 a daughter of Albert Hagen and Janet (Connell) Lucier. She graduated from Medway High School, class of 1976 and earned a Bachelor's degree from Northeastern University in 1981. She lived over 15 years in Hopkinton and later settling in Shrewsbury while her son attended St. John's High School. It was her plan to retire permanently to her summer home in West Yarmouth that she did 3 weeks ago. Throughout her battle with cancer she fought it with grace, courage and dignity. She enjoyed this past Thanksgiving at her home in Shrewsbury on Prospect Street with family and friends around her table. In the truest sense of the word and spirit of the holiday this past Thanksgiving afforded her an opportunity, perhaps even unspoken, to give thanks to and for the many people in her life. In the end it's what life is all about. Deb was so very much loved and she will be missed.

She loved interior design and had a natural talent and flare for decorating and rehabilitating homes. Real estate was her passion and the field in which she worked for so many years, most recently with Andrew Abu Real Estate.

Other interests included flowers and gardening; animals, especially her much loved Montana and Oliver; New England sports, the beach, most especially Gray's Beach in Yarmouthport; and above all the company of good friends and family.

Debra is predeceased by her step-father, Philip J. Luicer.

She leaves her husband, Judd F. Aschenbrand and her son, Matthew Blais Barrieau, both of West Yarmouth; her mother, Janet Lucier of Naples, Florida; her step-son, Christopher J. Aschenbrand of Haverhill; her siblings, James A. Hagen of West Roxbury and Nancy E. Maguire and her husband, John, of Norfolk; step-siblings, Patrick Lucier, Jocelyn Lucier, Jill Lucier, Janine Panachelli, and Philip Lucier; and her much loved nieces and nephews.

Family and friends will honor and remember Debra's life by gathering in Pilgrim Congregational Church, 15 Common Street, Southborough on Wednesday, December 19th where her Funeral Service will be held at 11:00 a.m. Burial will follow in Sharon Memorial Park, Sharon.

In lieu of flowers, please honor Debra's memory with a contribution to the Pilgrim Congregational Church, 15 Common Street, Southborough 01772 or The Beauty Foundation for Cancer Care, 68 White Street, St. 113, Red Bank, NJ 07701.

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